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To the Mom Who Feels Like She’s Failing at the One Thing She Was Sure God Called Her To…

  Let’s be honest. Some days you feel like the circus clown… Only the clowns have more help and better costumes. Your “classroom” is the kitchen table. Your students? One’s crying, one’s hiding, one’s asking you a question that sounds like it came straight out of a college exam. Meanwhile, the baby’s screaming, the dog just threw up on the rug, and the toddler… well… let’s just say the peanut butter was NOT supposed to be art supplies. And you? You’re standing there with cold coffee, wondering how in the world you ended up in charge of someone’s entire education. "Maybe I’m in over my head." "Maybe I’m wrecking their future." "Maybe they’d be better off with a real teacher." You’ve seen those Instagram-perfect homeschool moms… Neat handwriting on the whiteboard, shelves arranged by color, kids smiling like they just won the lottery for Most Well-Behaved Family. You’ve tried to copy them. You’ve stayed up past midnight rearranging books, printing lesson ...
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Finding Peace Amid Envy and Discontent

 


Have you ever found yourself feeling envious of others, even when you know deep down that everything we have comes from God? It’s a tough feeling to wrestle with—especially when we know we shouldn’t be upset if God doesn’t give us what we’re asking for. We understand that He knows what’s best for us, and yet, despite this knowledge, there’s a part of us that still feels sad and discouraged.

I’ve had these feelings too. I see others who seem to have it all—financial stability, beautiful homes, and the ability to provide so much for their families. I can’t help but feel a twinge of envy. I remind myself that I am nothing without God and that everything I have comes from Him. I have no right to be angry or frustrated if He chooses to give or withhold something from me. But still, I feel the weight of disappointment and the pang of envy. Why is this?

Understanding Our Feelings

It’s important to recognize that these emotions are a normal part of being human. Even though we know that God is in control and that we should be content with what He has given us, it’s natural to struggle with feelings of envy and sadness. We often compare ourselves to others, especially when we’re facing hardships. It’s almost instinctive to look at those who seem to have more and wonder, “Why not me?”

But what do we really desire when we feel this way? Is it truly the material things that we envy, or is it something deeper? Sometimes, what we’re yearning for is not the comfort or wealth itself but the security, peace, and joy we think it will bring us. Our hearts are restless, seeking fulfillment in things that can never truly satisfy us.

Turning to God for Contentment

So, how do we handle these feelings? How do we find peace when we feel left out or overlooked?

  1. Practice Gratitude Daily: Start by recognizing the blessings you already have. Even the smallest things—a roof over your head, the love of your family, the gift of another day—are precious gifts from God. When we cultivate a habit of gratitude, it helps us see the goodness of God in our everyday lives and lessens our focus on what we lack.

  2. Strengthen Your Faith and Trust in God’s Plan: Remember that God’s timing and purposes are perfect. What He withholds from us is as much a part of His plan as what He gives us. When we surrender our desires to Him and trust that He knows what’s best, we open ourselves to His peace, even in difficult times.

  3. Avoid the Trap of Comparison: Each person’s journey is unique. What may seem like abundance to us could be masking struggles that we don’t see. Instead of comparing ourselves to others, let’s focus on our own path and the specific mission God has for us.

  4. Pray and Seek God’s Guidance: Bring your struggles to God in prayer. Tell Him about your pain and ask Him to show you what He wants you to learn through this. When we approach God with humility and openness, He gives us the grace to accept His will and find peace.

  5. Focus on What Truly Matters: Material possessions and earthly success can never bring lasting happiness. True joy comes from meaningful relationships, loving and serving others, and deepening our relationship with God. When we shift our focus to these things, we find fulfillment that material wealth could never provide.

Finding Joy in Simple Things

As I continue on my own journey, I’m learning that true contentment comes not from having more, but from being grateful for what I have. It comes from trusting in God’s plan, even when I don’t understand it. It comes from finding joy in the simple, everyday moments—laughing with my children, enjoying a quiet cup of coffee in the morning, or feeling the peace that comes from knowing I am loved by God.

If you, too, struggle with envy or discontent, know that you are not alone. We all face these feelings from time to time. But with God’s grace, we can rise above them, finding peace and joy in the knowledge that He is always with us, guiding us, and loving us just as we are.

Remember, your worth is not defined by what you have or don’t have, but by the infinite love of the One who created you. Trust in Him, and you will find true peace and fulfillment beyond anything this world can offer.

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