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To the Mom Who Feels Like She’s Failing at the One Thing She Was Sure God Called Her To…

  Let’s be honest. Some days you feel like the circus clown… Only the clowns have more help and better costumes. Your “classroom” is the kitchen table. Your students? One’s crying, one’s hiding, one’s asking you a question that sounds like it came straight out of a college exam. Meanwhile, the baby’s screaming, the dog just threw up on the rug, and the toddler… well… let’s just say the peanut butter was NOT supposed to be art supplies. And you? You’re standing there with cold coffee, wondering how in the world you ended up in charge of someone’s entire education. "Maybe I’m in over my head." "Maybe I’m wrecking their future." "Maybe they’d be better off with a real teacher." You’ve seen those Instagram-perfect homeschool moms… Neat handwriting on the whiteboard, shelves arranged by color, kids smiling like they just won the lottery for Most Well-Behaved Family. You’ve tried to copy them. You’ve stayed up past midnight rearranging books, printing lesson ...

6. Mental Prayer: A Simple Path to Growth and Peace

 



What is Mental Prayer?

Mental prayer is a quiet, personal conversation with God that takes place in the heart and mind. It’s different from prayers we say aloud or follow in a book. Instead, mental prayer allows us to lift our thoughts and hearts to God without the need for words. It’s like sitting with a good friend and simply being in their presence, but instead of a friend, we are with God.

There are two kinds of mental prayer: active prayer and passive prayer. In active prayer, we make an effort to focus on God through our thoughts and desires. We might reflect on a Bible passage or think about something holy that moves us to love God more. It’s like working hard to water a garden, as St. Teresa of Ávila describes—drawing water from a well to nourish our hearts. In passive prayer, we allow God to take over. He guides our soul while we remain open to His presence, much like resting in His arms.

No matter which kind of prayer we use, the goal is the same: to become closer to God and to be better people.

Why Should We Practice Mental Prayer?

  1. It Helps Us Know God Better

We often forget about God in the hustle of daily life. Mental prayer keeps us focused on Him. When we meditate, we fill our minds with holy thoughts, reminding ourselves of God’s love and His guidance in our lives. This keeps us spiritually awake, avoiding the temptation to drift away from our faith.

  1. It Shows Us Ourselves

Mental prayer is like holding up a mirror to our souls. It helps us see our weaknesses and faults, the things we need to change. Just as we clean a dirty mirror to see clearly, mental prayer cleanses our hearts, making us aware of our mistakes and inspiring us to grow in holiness. By recognizing our flaws, we humble ourselves before God and ask for His help to become better.

  1. It Strengthens Our Virtues

When we practice mental prayer, we also cultivate virtues like humility, love, and patience. It’s a way of exercising our soul, helping it grow stronger. Just as we exercise our bodies to stay healthy, mental prayer helps keep our spirit in good shape. The more we practice, the easier it becomes to live out our faith.

  1. It Brings Peace and Focus

Mental prayer simplifies life. In prayer, we turn away from distractions and focus entirely on God. This practice refreshes the soul, much like resting after a long day. It fills us with inner peace, clarity, and strength to face challenges. It becomes easier to live by faith, to hope, and to love God with all our hearts.

How to Begin Mental Prayer

  • Find a Quiet Place: Start by sitting in a peaceful spot where you won’t be interrupted. It can be a corner of your home, in a church, or even outside in nature.

  • Focus on God: Close your eyes and think about God. You don’t need to say anything aloud. Simply rest in His presence. You can picture Him, imagine Jesus walking with you, or think about a Bible story or a holy image that inspires you.

  • Ask for Help: If you’re not sure where to begin, ask God to guide you. Let Him know you want to spend time with Him and that you need His help to stay focused.

  • Reflect and Speak to God from the Heart: After a few moments of silence, talk to God in your mind. Thank Him for the blessings in your life, ask for His help with any struggles, or simply tell Him how much you love Him. Let this conversation flow naturally, like you’re speaking to a trusted friend.

A Daily Habit of Growth

Mental prayer is not just something we do once in a while. To truly grow in faith, it’s important to make this a regular habit. Just as a plant needs daily sunlight and water to grow, our souls need regular time with God. Whether it’s for five minutes or an hour, dedicating time to mental prayer each day will bring you closer to God and help you live a life filled with peace, love, and purpose.

By practicing mental prayer, you will discover God in new ways, learn more about yourself, and grow in the virtues that lead to holiness.

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