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To the Mom Who Feels Like She’s Failing at the One Thing She Was Sure God Called Her To…

  Let’s be honest. Some days you feel like the circus clown… Only the clowns have more help and better costumes. Your “classroom” is the kitchen table. Your students? One’s crying, one’s hiding, one’s asking you a question that sounds like it came straight out of a college exam. Meanwhile, the baby’s screaming, the dog just threw up on the rug, and the toddler… well… let’s just say the peanut butter was NOT supposed to be art supplies. And you? You’re standing there with cold coffee, wondering how in the world you ended up in charge of someone’s entire education. "Maybe I’m in over my head." "Maybe I’m wrecking their future." "Maybe they’d be better off with a real teacher." You’ve seen those Instagram-perfect homeschool moms… Neat handwriting on the whiteboard, shelves arranged by color, kids smiling like they just won the lottery for Most Well-Behaved Family. You’ve tried to copy them. You’ve stayed up past midnight rearranging books, printing lesson ...

Understanding the Good and Evil Nature of a Child: Well-Being of Mind

Volume 6: Towards a Philosophy of Education by CM

vol 6, page 49




As parents, especially those who might not have a formal education, it's important to know that our children are not born "bad" or "good." They come into this world with the potential for both good and evil, and it's our job to guide them towards the good. This understanding is key in shaping their minds, which, like their bodies and emotions, have their own needs and rules.

The Mind's Role in a Child's Growth

Many people believe that while our bodies and emotions must follow certain rules, our minds are free to think whatever they want. However, this isn’t true. Just like our bodies need healthy food to grow, our minds need healthy thoughts and ideas. Children’s minds are like gardens—they can grow beautiful flowers or harmful weeds, depending on what we nurture in them.

When we understand that every child, no matter how shy or quiet they seem, has a powerful mind, we start to see the importance of feeding their minds with good, solid knowledge. For example, even if a child seems disinterested, they are capable of being fascinated by the wonders of science, like the stars in the sky. A simple story about the stars can ignite a child’s imagination and make them eager to learn more.

The Importance of Quality Education

Unfortunately, many schools and educational systems underestimate children’s abilities. They might rely on dry textbooks and repetitive lessons that bore the children, rather than inspire them. But children thrive when they are introduced to knowledge in a way that respects their intelligence. Whether it’s a complex historical event or a challenging math problem, when presented properly, children will engage with the material and grow intellectually.

Even literature, which some may think is too difficult for young minds, can be a source of joy and learning for children. By reading good books from an early age, children can enter a rich world of imagination and knowledge. This is true not just for children from well-off families, but for all children, even those who may not have many books at home.

The Danger of Overloading the Mind

However, just as we need to feed the mind, we must also avoid overwhelming it. Too much focus on one subject, or too much repetition, can deaden a child’s natural curiosity. For example, if we force children to repeat the same lessons over and over, they may lose interest and stop caring about learning altogether.

Children need a variety of subjects to keep their minds active and growing. Just as a person who only eats one type of food may become unhealthy, a child who only focuses on one area of learning can miss out on the richness of a well-rounded education.

Encouraging Healthy Thinking

Finally, it’s important to teach children how to think critically. In today’s world, where we are bombarded with different opinions and ideas, it’s easy for a child to be misled. By teaching them to recognize bad reasoning and to think carefully about what they hear, we help them become wise and discerning adults.

For example, if a child understands that not all ideas are good or true, they are less likely to be influenced by harmful thoughts or actions. This kind of education is crucial not just for their personal growth, but for the well-being of our whole society.

Conclusion

As parents, it’s vital to recognize the power of our children’s minds and the responsibility we have to guide them. By providing them with a rich, varied education and teaching them to think critically, we help them grow into wise and good individuals. Remember, our children are not born with all the answers, but with our guidance, they can grow into thoughtful, intelligent, and moral adults.

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